Monday, September 06, 2010

Say what?

This comment was left on my last post:
hey girl. i was meaning to post something really mean at first, but please, try to move on. God bless
Huh?? If you say you were going to post something really mean then don't you think that is really mean in itself? And why was 'Anonymous' going to be mean? Has he/she ever lost a child? Do they know what it is like to carry a life inside you for 9 (8 in my case) months, watch them grow for 11 months and then have them cruelly taken away from you? To tell me to move on and then to say god bless? I don't think they realise that such a comment can be hurtful even after 4,5 years when I am supposed to have moved on. And FYI, anonymous, I have a beautiful baby boy now who I am totally enjoying. If I want to come and express the occasional feelings of longing for the child I lost in this place, which is one place where I put down my feelings about my loss, as you may have noticed I don't post that often, I do not appreciate being told to move on. I use this public forum for this as there are actually people out there that it helps.
End of rant.


Rosepetal said...

Anonymous was a total idiot who doesn't understand anything. (hugs)

Anonymous said...

Anonymous is obviously a bitter, sad individual, probably someone without a life of her own - wanting to take out all her negative feelings on someone who totally doesnt deserve it... takes all kinds to make a world... what an eejit!! Lou - USA

artist_stevel said...

Well everyone has their opinion and unfortunately alot of them are useless and nasty. I am impressed with your blog_I found it on accident but I think that it is great you had a child and now you are leaving a space in your life and sharing it with others who have had that same loss and I think it is a wonderful thing you are doing. Most people appreciate your thoughts and feelings and I have to give you credit for staying strong and celebrating a life that meant so much to you-even it if it was for just a year.
Consider yourself hugged.

Marie said...

I'm with you....why Anonymous, why?

I am so sorry for your loss and cannot imagine the pain. I'm glad that you've got this space to talk about it.

Anonymous said...

Highly insensitive comment to make. If you have nothing nice to say, shut it. Clearly Anon has no concept of what it is you are going through.
Sending you a hug.

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